Table of contents Dedication Chapter one Why a virtuous woman Why some men do not marry virtuous women Chapter two What is marriage Biblical teaching on marriage Chapter three pg. 12 pg. 12 pg. 13 pg. 16 Characteristics or qualities of virtuous women i. Love ii. Wisdom iii. Prayer Conclusion pg. 16 pg. 25 pg. 31 pg. 32 pg. 16 pg. 2 pg. 3 pg. 3 pg. 4 Page | 1
DEDICATION I dedicate this book to my father and mother Mr. Ojame Okiror Robert and Mrs. Tino Ketty. In the same accord I also dedicate it to my lovely sisters and brothers. Page | 2
CHAPTER ONE The question of who a virtuous woman is, and has been a resounding one in the past, and contemporary times. However, why would scripture place emphasis on the need for every man to find a virtuous woman? This question not many people are able to answer. The character of every virtuous woman makes the marital journey beautiful, inspiring and effortless. Virtue is found in the state of the heart, and just like virtuous women, so do virtuous men too exist, although the focus of this book is on the virtuous woman. Each virtuous woman is holistic and complete in the character that builds them, and the distinction between them from the rest of the women is that they possess what other women do not. A woman, lady or girl may ask, is it possible for me to become a virtuous woman? The answer is YES, it is possible. Firstly, it is important to understand why God created woman. GENESIS 2:18 says, “Now the Lord God said, It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper MEET (suitable, adapted, complementary) for him.” This therefore calls for man to firstly understand himself, then he will be able to find a virtuous woman meet for him. Why? Because not every Page | 3
virtuous woman is meant for you, and that is why, you are set on the course of finding a specific one among the many, one who will better you. One may ask, do virtuous women exist? Yes, they do and will always exist. What then hinders some men from finding them? 1. Blindness Many are times when what we are looking for is closer to us than we expected, but then one gets blinded to the same due to many reasons, for instance, the inability to hear God’s Voice, looking from without than within, walking in the effect of past emotions, or even stereotyping. 2. Impatience Quite for some, because of what to them is delayed response from her, have walked away from what was meant for them. I know that love is an emotional journey, but again, one should be able to embrace the grace that comes along with it because 1 CORINTHIANS 13:4 says, “Love is Patient”. Page | 4
3. Despair Life at times comes along with hard questions which often mount up to pressure. For instance, age to some has driven them into opting for anyone who comes their way, and for this, they have abandoned the original course of searching to find themselves a virtuous woman. 4. Ignorance Just like the question posed earlier, many men do not know the importance of finding a virtuous woman, therefore, they set for themselves “qualities” that match their expectations as to what type of woman they want and not necessarily what God wants for them. 5. Low self-esteem Some men find challenges in expression which is caused by various reasons, for instance, their upbringing, background, listening to nonBiblical dogma and psychological harm causing them to disqualify themselves as undeserving from their point of view. 6. Pride This is the one factor that has denied some men from virtuous women. It is not compulsory that a virtuous woman must accept whoever comes-by, this is because they too have the choice on who to them qualifies to be a fitting virtuous man. Page | 5
7. Timing It is an earthly law for everyone to reap what they sow, and for this, time is of essence. This means that what ones uses of the time accorded to them will determine the outcome, as seen by some men misusing their opportunity and later regretting. Furthermore, some men either delay or rush in their approach and therefore fail to subject women to certain tests, for instance, “to what extent she loves people.” 8. Lack of prudence SONG OF SOLOMON 8:4 says, “I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem, that you never stir up or awaken love until it pleases.” This calls for men to discern how important it is to sow the right seeds at an appropriate time. Love has a timing which must align to God’s, Who makes everything beautiful in His time [ECCLESIASTES 3:11]. Therefore, some men have caused women to awake love before the right timing hence frustrating what was still processing to virtue. 9. Peer pressure Many men have often been influenced by their peers or those with authority over them, to do things so as to please them but not necessarily out of their will. This in most cases has forced some men into marrying the wrong partners, and even choosing to settle for less, rather than a virtuous woman. Page | 6
10. Lack of discipline This entails the ability to speak up for oneself. Some men have been found to have an imbalanced judgment in response hence not responding at all. For instance, some cannot say “no” to a woman and rather are dominated due to the “conscience question” of not wanting to “offend”. It is important for a man to say enough of a relationship that is not working and choose to wait on God for the best there is for them; which is a virtuous woman. 11. Self-centeredness This though quite similar to low self-esteem differs in the way that some men have always let their interests override those of a virtuous woman and hence lost balance in the relationship due to their ego. 12. Arrogance An arrogant man will always deter people because arrogance repels. Marriage calls for one to let go of certain characters and embrace change. This, some men are not able to take, because again some consider women as a weaker vessel in the sense that their opinions are inferior in substance and weight, which is a wrong perception. Page | 7
13. Inflexibility Some men have been offended mainly due to character issues. Inflexibility in this sense has denied many men of virtuous women because they might win the poll but her silence took note of every single detail of one’s character. 14. Multiplicity of choices PROVERBS 14:20 says, “the rich has many friends.” So it is that many men face a great challenge in decision making as to who their wife to be is. This has pushed some to place of choosing by the carnal senses hence a misdirection from the choice of the virtuous woman. 15. Beauty Although many men fall for beauty, few appreciate the fact that beauty is vain as per PROVERBS 31:30. As stated earlier, a virtuous woman is holistic in character and qualities, implying that beauty is not a standalone test for the virtuous woman. 16. Lack of perception and discernment The deception of the times; hypocrisy, has led many men into misjudging things, and this is caused by lack of perception. Perception is something important for everyman to have, because it will save them from what is usually hidden from the normal eyes and senses. Page | 8
For instance, smiling, kneeling or even outward temperance do not mean that one is a virtuous woman hence the need for perception and discernment. 17. Disobedience to spiritual promptings In life, one moment can be a defining factor to the many years ahead. In EXODUS 2:16-21 Moses at the well stood up, and helped Reuel’s daughters who were driven away by shepherds, and further watered their flock. This though to one might have been minor, but it opened a door for him to be given a hand in marriage to Zipporah by her father. Spiritual prompting is when God with urgency demands one to do or say something without even them having a full comprehension of the entire outcome from the prompt. Some men ignoring such instructions has caused them unnecessary delays hence frustrating what should have come easily. 18. Inability to ponder on the silent instructions from God God usually gives people hints on who their marriage partner is. In ESTHER 2:15, Esther obtained favour before king Ahasuerus because she required nothing but what Hegai the king’s eunuch, the keeper of the women, advised. PROVERBS 25:2 says, “It is the glory of God to conceal a thing, but the glory of kings is to search out a matter.” This knowledge is important for Page | 9
men because as kings, they are naturally meant to be seekers, and as scripture says, he who seeks surely finds. In addition to the above, just like Samson, some men have misused secrets by uttering them out and hence have been deceived into awkward predicaments of life. 19. Self-control issues This plays out in many dimensions, for instance, the inability to control anger, stay humble, or control the tongue. It is further depicted with how one lives their life. 1 CORINTHIANS 13:11 says, “When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child; now that I have become a man, I am done with childish ways and have put them aside.” Therefore, at a certain age certain things are not expected of men. 20. Forgetfulness PROVERBS 5:18 says, “Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth.” Much as many people truly come from far, some of them are quick to forget where they have come from and who stood with them during the hard and trying times. This has been met by certain men engaging in extramarital affairs rather than staying in the first marriage, which is wrong. Page | 10
21. Pleasure PROVERBS 21:17 says, “He who loves pleasure will be a poor man.” This means that nothing seems to add up in one’s life, due to the love for pleasure, and the refusal by them to commit to holy matrimony. These though not exhaustive, are some factors that have hindered some men from their marital destinies, and as well caused some to abandon their marital destinies for the short fixes of life. Page | 11
CHAPTER TWO What is marriage? This is a marital union between a man and woman in the blessing and supremacy of God’s mind and ideology concerning marriage hence becoming husband and wife in unison to become one flesh [MARK 10:78]. Is marriage beautiful? Yes, it is. Man’s first expression of happiness is seen in GENESIS 2:23, where he said, “This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh. She will be called ‘woman,’ because she was taken out of man.” Much as in Christ we are complete, there is something marriage adds up to a person, although again, marriage is not for everyone as some choose celibacy for purposes of serving God, which is okay [MATTHEW 19:1112, 1 CORINTHIANS 7:27-35]. There are times when one cooks food and although sweet, but feel that there is some missing ingredient to make it perfectly sweet, and so is marriage, for it makes the finest version of every man and woman. Page | 12
What is the Biblical teaching on marriage? 1. Marriage is God’s idea MATTHEW 19:3-8 says, “The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason?” And He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He Who made them at the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘for this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate.” They said to Him, “Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?” He said to them, “Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.”” The last statement captivates my heart, for it says, “but from the beginning it was not so”. This simply means that we have to always rely solely on what the Scripture says and not what man says because God authored marriage and defined how it is to be conducted to the minutest detail hence there is no need for any further interpretation of what is plainly elaborated in the Word of God. Page | 13
2. Marriage is the mystery of the Unity of Christ and the Church EPHESIANS 5:31-32 says, “For this cause shall man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and the two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.” For one to have a full understanding of what the Scriptures call “one flesh”, they must first understand the relationship between Christ and the church. Much as from man came woman, and so did the church from Christ, the distinction is laid out in the sacrifice that Jesus died for the church [JOHN 19:30], whereas for man, he did not take up or mediate on behalf of woman [GENESIS 3:12]. This is the reason as to why we draw the mystery of marriage from the Unity, Relationship and the Love of Christ and the Church. 3. Marriage is witnessed by God GENESIS 2:22 says, “Then the rib which the LORD God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man.” Here we see that God Himself officiated and witnessed the marriage between man and woman, so does He still do today. 4. Marriage is blessed by God In GENESIS 2:24 God said, “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” This Page | 14
is why MARK 10:9 says, “Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate.” In addition to the above, GENESIS 1:28 says, “Then God blessed them, and said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”” 5. Marriage is holy HEBREWS 13:4 says, “Marriage is honourable among all, and the bed undefiled.” It is only in marriage that the bed is undefiled by intimacy. Furthermore, marriage is the seal of a sacred relationship. Above are some of the Biblical teachings on marriage. With emphasis, there is a great need for all people to learn to read the Word of God for themselves because we live in the era “where it is spoken, or it was said by” sounds ultimate rather than, “It is written”. It is also prudent for all people to allow the Holy Spirit to infuse the understanding of Scripture into them. Page | 15
CHAPTER THREE Before delving into the gist of this book, it is important to know that it is not late for one to subject themselves to the process that makes the virtuous woman of women. The Characteristics or qualities possessed by the Virtuous Woman. i. LOVE It is firstly important to appreciate the fact that Love is what makes the marriage. AMOS 3:3 asks a profound question saying, “Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?” Therefore without love, it will only be a matter of time. 1 PETER 4:8 says, “Most important of all, continue to show deep love for each other, for love covers a multitude of sins.” In other words, the pillar of Love is the substance through which every virtuous woman is made of. This kind of Love is the God kind, called AGAPE. It is multi-faceted and dimensioned just as elaborated by EPHESIANS 3:18 speaking of it having breadth and length and height and depth. Marriage does not make one what they are not already, in other words for two to become one flesh, there should be a place of breaking, flexibility and compromise whenever demanded. This may mean Page | 16
choosing to unlearn what one seems to know so as to allow oneself to learn the new. Love is the Mantle upon all virtuous women. This transcends the hypocritical kind that seeks praises from men but deep in the heart, one is so full of hatred. Below are some of the dimensions of her Love. a) Forgiving EPHESIANS 1:7 says, “In Whom we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of His grace.” Virtuous women carry the wells of forgiveness, for they forgive easily and forget the past wrongs so as to embrace the future. This forgiveness flows so naturally from and within them, for there is nothing they cannot forgive. This is because of the wells of Love from which they drunk; which is Christ. b) Calmness 1 SAMUEL 1:6, 7 speaks of how Peninnah constantly provoked Hannah for not having child, and never is it written that Hannah fought or engaged in a brawl with her but alternatively she turned to the LORD to Whom she poured out her heart. Page | 17
All virtuous women are calm in character, and cannot easily be provoked, this is because they have rule or mastery over their spirit. c) Kindness In RUTH 3:3-11 Naomi instructed Ruth to show kindness to Boaz who later blessed her acknowledging that she was a virtuous woman. It says, “So she went down to the threshing floor and did according to all that her mother-in-law instructed her… Then he said, “Blessed are you of the LORD, my daughter! For you have shown more kindness at the end than at the beginning, in that you did not go after young men, whether poor or rich. And now, my daughter, do not fear. I will do for you all that you request, for all the people of my town know that you are a virtuous woman.”” As seen above, kindness is the nature of all virtuous women. d) Covenant keepers Their word is stronger than a contract because of the depth anchored in it. RUTH 1:8-22 speaks of Naomi and her two daughters-in-law namely Orpah and Ruth who both lost their husbands. She later entreated them to return to their people because of how hard the situations of life were, and this what Scripture says. “But Naomi said, “Turn back, my daughters; why will you go with me? Are there still sons in my womb, that they may be your husbands? Turn back, my daughters, go—for I am Page | 18
too old to have a husband. If I should say I have hope, if I should have a husband tonight and should also bear sons, would you wait for them till they were grown? Would you restrain yourselves from having husbands? No, my daughters; for it grieves me very much for your sakes that the hand of the LORD … Then they lifted up their voices and wept again; and Orpah kissed her mother-in-law, but Ruth clung to her.” And she said, “Look, your sister-in-law has gone back to her people and to her gods; return after your sister-in-law.” But Ruth said: “Entreat me not to leave you, or to turn back from following after you; For wherever you go, I will go; And wherever you lodge, I will lodge; Your people shall be my people, And your God, my God. Where you die, I will die, and there will I be buried. The LORD do so to me, and more also, if anything but death parts you and me.” When she saw that she was determined to go with her, she stopped speaking to her.” When she gives you her word, there is no need to doubt it because of how firm and unshakable it is. e) Joy PROVERBS 12:4 says, “A virtuous and worthy wife is a crowning joy to her husband.” Joy is the one thing that cannot be faked. Page | 19
A virtuous woman is filled with joy, and diffuses it everywhere she goes and to all people including her husband. I have seen people who have never smiled all their life turn to smile and be joyous just because they married a virtuous woman. f) Peace PROVERBS 3:17 says, “Her ways are highways of pleasantness, and all her paths are peace.” She is not only peaceful, but also a peace maker. When a virtuous woman enters one of the most unpeaceful families, there is a peace that comes into that family. Why? Because peace has come. g) Humility 1 PETER 5:5 speaks of how all people should clothe themselves with humility. Humility is the state of one’s heart. This is a strong pillar in discerning a virtuous woman, because no virtuous woman is proud. In ESTHER 1:9, and 12 queen Vashti missed it when pride caused her also to give a banquet at the same time when king Ahasuerus organized one, and further her refusal to turn up when required by the king nailed the peak of her pride. Page | 20
In other words, a virtuous woman will always side with the husband no matter how shameful it is rather than publicly mocking or openly criticizing him amidst others. h) Silence ECCLESIASTES 3:7 speaks of one of the ancient wisdoms understood by all virtuous women; a time to keep silence and a time to speak. This is the one principle ordinary women do not understand, hence have been found to speak where they ought to have been silent, or even silent where they ought to have spoken. i) Giving PROVERBS 31:20 says, “She opens her hand to the poor, yes, she reaches out her filled hands to the needy whether in body, mind, or spirit.” It is an essential characteristic for all virtuous women to be generous to the needy. This is the nature of their heart; to have compassion on God. PROVERBS 19:17 says, “He who has pity on the poor lends to the LORD, and that which he has given He will repay to him.” Page | 21
j) Repentance PROVERBS 31:12 says, “She does him good, all the days of her life.” This involves the ability to acknowledge wrong and embrace change for purposes of preserving the lovely relationship. It is an easy for a virtuous woman to take responsibility for a fault even though not committed by her, this is because of how sensitive and cautious they are. k) Instructible All virtuous women are easily instructible. In others words, they died to an argumentative spirit. PSALM 62:11 speaks of how God has spoken once and twice I have heard. Virtuous women are instructible because their heart is soft and their ears sharpened to listen with the readiness to execute instruction to the minutest detail. In GENESIS 18:1-8 when Abraham was visited by God, he instructed Sarah to quickly prepare three measures of fine meal, knead it, and make cakes. This she did right away without questioning. l) Children lovers EXODUS 1:15-21 says, “The king of Egypt spoke to the Hebrew midwives, of whom the name of the one was Shiphrah, and the name of Page | 22
the other Puah, and he said, “When you perform the duty of a midwife to the Hebrew women, and see them on the birth stool; if it is a son, then you shall kill him; but if it is a daughter, then she shall live.” But the midwives feared God, and did not do what the king of Egypt commanded them, but saved the baby boys alive. The king of Egypt called for the midwives, and said to them, “Why have you done this thing, and have saved the boys alive?” The midwives said to Pharaoh, “Because the Hebrew women are not like the Egyptian women; for they are vigorous, and give birth before the midwife comes to them.” God dealt well with the midwives, and the people multiplied, and grew very mighty. It happened, because the midwives feared God, that He gave them families.” All Virtuous Women love children whether theirs or not, and further none of them does abort nor promote the same. m) Discipline PROVERBS 31:28 says, “Her children rise up and call her blessed. Her husband also praises her.” This is because of how exceptional they are in their consistency and delivery as they always get things done. Page | 23
n) Diligence Virtuous women always love everything they do, and do it wholeheartedly. PROVERBS 22:29 says, “Do you see a man diligent and skilful in his business? He will stand before kings; he will not stand before obscure men.” No wonder virtuous women are always found by men of Purpose. Page | 24
ii. WISDOM PROVERBS 3:15 calls wisdom by a feminine character “she, and her”, meaning that all virtuous women are endued with Wisdom. Just as verse 13 says that happy is the man who finds skillful and godly wisdom, so it is that men marry Wisdom. Just like love, wisdom is infinite in operation and specific in expression, and below are the various expressions of the same. i. God Reverence JOB 28:28 says, “The fear of the LORD is true wisdom.” This takes various dimensions, however briefly, PSALM 1:1-3 says, “Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stands in the path of sinners, nor sits in the seat of the scornful; but his delight is in the law of the LORD, and in His law he meditates day and night. He shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that brings forth its fruit in its season, whose leaf also shall not wither; and whatever he does shall prosper.” It is in all virtuous women to fear God, and this is expressed in their actions, words, and convictions. Page | 25
ii. Vision In LUKE 1:59-64 much as the angel of the LORD had appeared to Zacharias in verse 11-20 and muted him, the Bible says this of Elizabeth, “So it was, on the eighth day, that they came to circumcise the child; and they would have called him by the name of his father, Zacharias. His mother answered and said, “No; he shall be called John.” But they said to her, “There is no one among your relatives who is called by this name.” so they made signs to his father—what he would have him called. And he asked for a writing tablet, and wrote, saying, “His name is John.” So they marveled. Immediately his mouth was opened and his tongue loosed, and he spoke, praising God.” All virtuous women carry a distinct kind of vision which I could term as a prophetic mantle which also comes with the clarity of God’s Voice. In other words, it is in them to understand the unsaid and fully comprehend the said. This means that they do not require repetition of a matter because they are quick listeners. Page | 26
iii. Conceiver Virtuous women are conceivers, for they carry the ability to bring to maturity that which was immature. LUKE 2:15-19 speaks of how the shepherds made known to Mary and Joseph what was told them by the angel of the LORD concerning baby Jesus, which marveled everyone who heard it, BUT Mary kept all those things and pondered them in her heart. These were the words declared, “Do not be afraid, for behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people. For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, Who is Christ the LORD.” This required more than just mere excitement but extra protection to the Baby whose Purpose was way beyond the ordinary. Furthermore, virtuous women carry the ability to read in between the lines. They can know when a person is speaking the truth or not. iv. Builders This I firstly heard from my spiritual father Apostle Grace Lubega. Virtuous women carry gifted hands to pioneer great things. PROVERBS 31:16 says, “She considers a field and buys it; From her profits she plants a vineyard.” This means that they carry wisdom to execute all their plans. Page | 27
In addition to the above, virtuous women carry a financial discipline and independence as seen above. This includes an acuity in business, in other words, they are wealth makers. PROVERBS 18:22 says, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the LORD.” And chapter 10:22 speaks of God’s blessing saying, “It makes one rich, and does not come with sorrow.” v. Confession 2 KINGS 4:25-37 tells us of a Shunammite woman who had lost her son, but when asked by Gehazi about everything, her response was, “It is well” [verse 26], and in verse 28 she expressed to prophet Elisha what had happened, without uttering a negative confession (death). Virtuous women neither wail over situations, nor do they seek the world’s compassion, for they carry the strength to overcome challenges. PROVERBS 31:25 says, “she laughs without fear of the future.” vi. Cooking All virtuous women know how to cook. PROVERBS 31:15 says, “She gets up before dawn to prepare breakfast for her household.” My mother as a virtuous woman is the best person I know at cooking. This does not mean that they can prepare all dishes, but at least they can prepare something delicious for their household. Page | 28
vii. Commanding respect PROVERBS 31:26 says, “When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness.” Verse 22, “she dresses in fine linen and purple gowns.” In other words, she thinks (lives) royalty and is never intimidated by circumstances because she can blossom from anywhere. Verse 23, “Her husband is well known at the city gates, where he sits with the other civic leaders.” In other words, the works of her hands give pride to her husband among the community because of her high work ethic which exceeds even that of men. Virtuous women carry an aura that no ordinary woman does carry, they command a honour that can only come from God. viii. She knows her worth PROVERBS 31:10 says, “Who can find a virtuous and capable wife? She is more precious than rubies.” The question is, if she is more precious than rubies, what then is her worth? MATTHEW 13:45-46 says, “Again, the kingdom of Heaven is like a merchant on the lookout for choice pearls. When he discovered a pearl of great value, he sold everything he owned and bought it!” Page | 29
In this narrative, it is no longer about possessions, or accolades, but it is about you. This is why man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two become one flesh. [GENESIS 2:24] ix. Excellence PROVERBS 9:1 says, “Wisdom has built her house, she has hewn out her seven pillars.” Seven signifies perfection, in other words, everything she does is excellent. Furthermore, PROVERBS 24:3-4 says, “Through wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established; by knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches.” The mere fact that wisdom ranks first in the hierarchy of knowledge and understanding, this means that virtuous women carry the substance required in the entire chain and cycle above. In other words, their houses are never empty or void of knowledge and understanding. Page | 30
iii. PRAYER PROVERBS 31:18 says, “her lamp does not go out by night.” All virtuous women are praying women. They understand the importance of prayer hence, not only do they have an altar but one that is consistently burning. They understand the fact that they are made through prayer and that everything in the physical aligns because they already aligned it in the spiritual realm. Page | 31
CONCLUSION Marriage has either made or broken people. I have seen once lovely men turn into beasts. I have seen once rich people become beggarly and destitute. I have seen a once outspoken marriage turn scandalous. I have seen once celebrated partners become suicidal. Therefore choose Wisely. All in all, marriage is lovely when God takes the lead. This means that He becomes the first resort to solve any situation, and that the spouses by choice choose to submit their marriage to God. On 26th December, 2025 a friend of mine called me and we met and had a conversation concerning marriage, after which I realized that many people are struggling with a similar question hence the reason behind writing this book and guide, though not exhaustive but at least helpful. Thank You God for Everything. For any inquiries or comments kindly reach out through: opalefrank94@gmail.com Page | 32
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