4 GROUNDCOVER NEWS PRIDE LAYLA MCMURTRIE Deputy Editor According to Health Care for the Homeless, one in five transgender people, and 41% of Black trans people, have experienced homelessness. There are very few shelters specifically for trans and gender non-conforming homeless people, and most of the resources available cater towards youth, leaving trans adults suffering. Shelters are no exception to the hate that the LGBTQ+ community is often subject to. At the Robert J. Delonis Center in Ann Arbor, where there are 56 residential beds, women are placed on the fourth floor and men on the third floor. Often trans people don’t feel right with either option, as many feel unsafe in men’s shelters due to a higher risk of sexual assault, but can also feel out of place with cisgender women. Local trans lesbian Sarah Dunn has spent time in the Washtenaw County homeless community since coming out in 2017 and said that she never felt comfortable at Delonis. “I didn't feel safe, even waiting outside, because I was catcalled. I had some guy trying to put his arm around me,” Dunn said. “I was glad that Washtenaw Camp Outreach was able to put me up at a motel that night and then I moved into Purple House the next day, but it was that traumatizing even just waiting out there knowing that I could be preyed on.” Dunn thinks that to prevent behavior like this, shelters should have a zero-tolerance policy for predatory behavior. While Delonis does have a non-discrimination policy and a way for residents to file complaints, it seldom results in aggressors being JUNE 2, 2023 A local look at trans people in homelesss shelters exited from the shelter, according to Housing Director Christina Johnson. When starting her job at Delonis in 2012, Johnson was glad to find out that their rule was already that a client will be placed on the floor matching their gender identity. But, the system is still far from perfect. Currently, the center has no specific protections for trans people, just a community agreement poster that emphasizes safety and respect. see SHELTER next page A few notes on respect: How to ensure you're treating a trans person with dignity PHOENIX OAKS Street Roots vendor I've noticed that, unfortunately, staff and volunteers who run non-profits that serve poor and houseless folks are often unaware of how to treat transgender community members with basic respect. Some are outright unwilling to use trans people’s correct names or pronouns. That was my reason for putting together a presentation that the following tips were taken from. This lack of respect is especially unacceptable given that trans people make up a highly disproportionate percentage of houseless folks. We face very high rates of discrimination, violence, family and community rejection, harassment and suicide attempts because of transphobia. The last thing struggling trans folks need is to be mistreated in places like shelters, service centers, offices, medical clinics and places where they get food and use restrooms. I’ve experienced incessant misgendering and other forms of transphobia by a few people in some of these places. I’ve also seen trans people get harassed, discriminated against and misgendered by staff and other residents in shelters. I’ve been told by an employee at a shelter service that trans men can just go to the women’s shelter after I raised concerns about trans men and nonbinary people’s safety in shelters. As a trans man, I’d feel extremely uncomfortable and out of place going into a women’s shelter (especially since I pass as male and am legally male). At the same time, I’d unfortunately feel unsafe in a men’s shelter, too, given how high the risk of sexual assault would be there. Many people in this community first met me before I started transitioning. Don’t get me wrong — trans men and women should definitely be able to stay in men’s and women’s shelters respectively according to their correct genders, just as they should be able to use the correct restrooms. At the same time, given the current social climate, I believe that trans, nonbinary and gender nonconforming people need their own shelter or shelter beds that they can go to if they feel safer there. As things are now, the places that serve folks who are struggling the most are often not safe or welcoming to us. The importance of names and pronouns • Respect everyone’s right to self-identify and express however they wish at any time and in any situation. • Once known, use ONLY a person’s chosen name and pronouns, unless they explicitly want you to do otherwise. This can be the case when a person is still in the process of coming out. • Don’t justify deadnaming (using a person’s former name) or misgendering. Apologize and correct yourself if you slip. • Legal names and genders are often NOT preferred and are not to be considered people’s “real” names or genders. • Don’t out anyone without permission. Actions, questions and statements to avoid • Unequal, stigmatizing, dehumanizing or awkward treatment such as staring; ceasing communication; deliberate deadnaming or misgendering; sharing medical/anatomical info, old photos or birth name without the trans person’s consent; transphobic jokes or stereotyping; or using mocking or condescending tone with chosen name or pronouns. • Anything invasive or objectifying about body, presentation, old or new name or appearance, or transition process. • Pressure to do anything that feels unsafe or dysphoria-inducing such as calling police, going to a place that doesn’t feel welcoming, or presenting as assigned gender for school or a family gathering. • Invalidating trans kids’ or youths’ needs or identities by claiming that they’re too young to know, that trans pre-teens shouldn’t go on puberty blockers, or that trans teens shouldn’t have hormone therapy, etc. • Anything that treats trans men as if they’re not real men or trans women as if they’re not real women. For example, stereotyping trans men as being better than cis men as if they’re not real men and masculinity is inherently toxic; treating trans women like they’re men invading women’s spaces; “We welcome women and trans people” on signs; and surveys that have “male,” “female,” “trans male,” and “trans female” as distinct options instead of “cis male,” “cis female,” “trans male,” and “trans female.” • Regarding nonbinary genders as less real or unreal; refusing to use gender-neutral pronouns or the Mx. honorific; or saying that they/them for one person is grammatically incorrect. • Falsely claiming that being trans is a mental illness, a trend or a personal choice; falsely claiming that science supports transphobia; or saying that being trans is against one’s culture, religion, feminism or beliefs. • Performative allyship, tokenism A self-portrait of Phoenix Oaks, originally published in the Street Roots 2019 Holiday Zine. and inappropriate parading of trans identities. • Accusing trans people of being unreasonable or overly sensitive in response to their trauma, dysphoria, or unwillingness to take transphobia; blaming trans people’s unrelated issues on them transitioning; gaslighting; or saying “not all cis people” when they process their experiences. • Treating transphobia like a lower-priority problem to address or a less serious/real oppression. • Arguing that trans people shouldn’t be allowed in certain jobs, roles or places for their correct genders, for example, sports teams, restrooms, the military, teaching, raising kids, religious/spiritual leadership and political office; or that trans prisoners or poor people shouldn’t be able to have surgery. 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