Page 12 THE REVERE ADVOCATE – FRIDAY, MARCH 6, 2026 ~ In Memoriam ~ Tammy Lynn Frongillo February 24, 1972 - February 17, 2026 OBITUARIES Alice Elizabeth Cataldo There’s a quote about battle from Mao Zedong’s writings on warfare that says: “When the enemy advances, we retreat. When the enemy camps, we harass. When the enemy tires, we attack. When the enemy retreats, we pursue.” It’s about knowing when to push and when to step back. It’s about understanding that battle isn’t just strength, it’s son’s. And she was. As the enemy advanced, she adapted. She fought. She endured more than most of us could ever see. And when her time to retreat came, it was not weakness. It was not defeat. It was the next step in her battle. And sometimes you have to surrender to win. Collectively, we share many of the same battles. But when it comes down to it, we never truly know what another’s inner battle is. No matter how we perceive it, our truth may not necessarily be the truth of another. With Tammy, the devices in her head made it really because they made her look normal on the outside. But inside, her battle was real. The pain was real. truth was that she didn’t want to be a burden. She didn’t want to be a prisoner of her body. She was in pain. She already taken so much from her. This lifetime is but a blip. How lucky is she to have had so much love in her life? I don’t even think she realized how loved she was. I mean… look at this. Look at all of us. And how lucky are we to feel the ripples of her love. Look at this, it’s huge. All of this family, chosen family and friends. All of us here together with so much love in our hearts and Tammy at the center of it all. She was so kind. Truly kind. Not a bad bone in her body. If you want to truly honor Tammy, if you want her spirit to keep shining in this world, at the beginning of each day ask yourself, “What would Tammy do?” And then choose kindness. Choose the smile. Choose the gentle word. Because you never know what someone is carrying behind closed doors and even the smallest act of kindness can change someone’s whole day… sometimes even their whole life. From the many heartfelt conversations I had with my sister over the past couple of years, I can say this with certainty: it wasn’t personal. There is nothing you did ently. As Sunzu said in the art of war: He who knows when Tammy’s journey was her own. She did it her way and sometimes you have to surrender to win. She is free now and at peace, celebrate her victory and know that she loved each and every one of you more than you know. Fly Free Tam, until we meet again! Love you forever, Your Big Sis O O f Revere. Lovingly known as Alice, passed away on February 20, 2024, at the age of 86. Born on June 26, 1937, in Malden, Alice was a dedicated and thoughtful woman who devoted her life to her Sabino Albanese family, her work, and her community. Alice graduated from Immaculate Conception High School. Alice worked as an Office Manager at the Massachusetts Department of Public Health for 21 years and retired in 2002. Alice spent her entire life in Revere, creating countless memories and forming lasting relationships that would span her lifetime. As Helen Keller once said, «The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched- they must be felt with the heart.» Alice was indeed one of those beautiful things, touching the lives of all who knew her with her kindness and humility. spent many years working as a Tool and Die Machinist at Gillette. Beyond Sabino’s career, he was known for homing pigeons, gardening, world history knowledge, and love of his family and friends. He had an infectious smile, and a big heart. Sabino was a devoted husband, father, grandfather and friend who will be remembered for always being there with a kind smile, generous heart and always an open door. He is the beloved husband f Revere. Passed away unexpectedly on February 24th at 78 years of age. Sabino was a native of Candida, Avellino, Italy and was the son of the late Antonio and Pasqualina (Fiore) Albanese. Sabino graduated from East Boston High School and RCCR | FROM Page 8 a way to watch ward councillors and they added there was no way to enforce the motion. But Kelley stressed that the motion was meant to ensure transparency among councillors, promote equal access to information for both Ward and At-Large Councillors and keep the council fully informed. Councillors unanimously voted against the motion. Congratulations to all T he council approved the appointments of Lily Marof Margherita (DeCicco) Albanese of Revere. Devoted father of Sandra Colantuoni and her husband Jon of Berwick, ME and Lisa Albanese and her fi ancé John Axiotakis of Peabody. Cherished grandfather of Mia Bickford and her husband Aaron, Sara Colantuoni, Nicolas Boissonnault tinez to the Parks and Recreation Commission, Matthew Wolfer to the Aff ordable Housing Trust Fund Board, Anthony Parziale to the Conservation Commission and the reappointment of Laila Pietri to the Aff ordable Housing Trust Fund Board. Free Parking for Seniors W ard 5 Councillor Guarino-Sawaya presented a motion that the Parking Department and Traffic Commission conduct a feasibility Alice leaves behind a legacy of love and devotion. She is survived by her children, Susan Venuti and Robert Venuti; stepson, Leonard Cataldo; step-granddaughters, Kimberly Cataldo-Murray and Danielle Cataldo; and brothers, William and Peter DiCarlo. Alice was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Leonard Cataldo; her parents, Peter and Lillian DiCarlo; her brothers, Joseph and Michael DiCarlo. Alice’s memory will also be cherished by her many nieces and nephews. In lieu of fl owers, donations may be made to your favorite charity or to the Salvation Army. and Andrew Boissonnault. Dear brother of Francesco Albanese, Italo Albanese, Maria Cella, Anna Crowley and Geraldo Albanese. He is also lovingly survived by many brothers-in-law, sisters-in-law, nieces and nephews. Family and friends were invited to attend Visiting Hours in the Vertuccio Smith & Vazza, Beechwood Home for Funerals, Revere on Sunday, March. His Funeral was held on Monday, followed by a Mass in Blessed Mother of the Morning Star Parish — St. Mary of the Assumption Church, Revere. Interment will follow in Holy Cross Cemetery, Malden. In lieu of fl owers, remembrances may be made to St. Jude Children’s Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105 or by visiting www.stjude.org. study on offering free 2-hour parking at metered spots for Revere residents 65 years of age or older, who have a valid driver’s license, and vehicle registered in their name. Guarino-Sawaya said the city could off er free parking during the monthly party at the senior center. Councillors supported the idea and it was referred to the council’s Ways and Means subcommittee. “This would be a great thing for seniors,” said Ward 1 Councillor James Mercurio. “I hope we can push this through.”
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