THE REVERE ADVOCATE – FRIDAY, JUNE 19, 2020 Page 5 ~ OP-ED ~ A Father’s Day Reflection By Mayor Brian M. Arrigo Y ears from now, historians, sociologists, scientists and scholars of all disciplines will examine the events and upheavals of the year 2020 and probably say…“wow.” We are actually living it, staying indoors, standing in lines, wearing masks and, all the while, studying our personal roles in social justice. Our sense of equilibrium feels out of whack. And then, amid all the anxiety and challenge and introspection that these fi rst six months of the year have foisted upon us, every now and then there’s a moment, a pause amid the rapid tempo of the times that affi rms precious truths that can stabilize us in even the most trying circumstance. I noticed that as the calendar approaches Father’s Day, 2020. I notice the immeasurable power of selfl essness, and giving of ourselves. I write this on a beautiful summer evening, the season’s late sunset lending a tint of orange to the surroundings. My boys Joseph and Jack have dozed off after a vigorously playful day and the fun we had playing a very modifi ed version of baseball this evening. And I am reminded of my father. It’s almost four years that Dad left us at the too-young age of 68. While he made his living as a pressman for over 30 years, he made his life serving the public. Whether it was school PTA, his years on the City Council, or helping out his neighbors and friends, quiet, dedicated service to the public inspired and motivated his every act. Oftentimes, I wonder what kind of guidance or advice he’d have off ered me these days, as the City enjoys unprecedented growth yet grapples with unprecedented tests. While I am sure he’d be generous with criticism (constructive criticism, I hope…), I am pretty sure he’d steer me consistently upon a path that I can best summarize as “giving.” A common and constant aspect of a Mayor’s job is that we hear from people, groups, and organizations who seek the assistance of the municipal government in their respective pursuits. And when the City can respond, the sense of public fulfi llment overrides any shred of frustration that also comes with the job. Maybe I didn’t realize it as a child, but I appreciate now the pure joy my Dad experienced from “giving.” As a pressman, Dad would often take home a newspaper “press plate,” the fullsized metal sheet that contained the image of a newspaper page and from which a newspaper was printed. When printing was fi nished, the metal plate was a solid lasting image of the particular newspaper page. Plates depicting momentous occasions quickly became a popular collectible. Dad was a sports fanatic, and when a Boston sports event made the front page of the Boston Globe, he’d find a way to make sure that press plate came home with him that day. The fi rst time I ever set foot in the Mayor’s offi ce at City Hall, I was a youngster. The Globe had run a front-page story about the Red Sox and the legendary Carl Yastrzemski. Dad knew that Mayor George V. Colella was an avid Red Sox fan, so he took the press plate of that front page, and me, to deliver a gift to the Mayor. I still have the photo of Dad handing Mayor Colella the plate, and as happy and grateful as Mayor Colella was receiving it, I am certain Dad’s joy giving it to him was greater. FATHER’S DAY | SEE PAGE 13
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